Case study

  Chen Ran's father was a government official, and her mother was a store clerk. Among the siblings of the couple, she was the only girl, so she naturally became the apple of their eye. Whether at relatives' homes or in her own home, she was always the most spoiled one. At the same time, she studied well and was a model for her elder brother and younger brothers to learn from, making her parents proud. The degree of her pampering can be imagined.

  At seventeen, she should be able to take care of herself at the very least, but Chen Rong was almost completely helpless except when it came to studying. Sometimes, she even needed her mother to wash her hair for her. Not only did she not feel ashamed of this, but she actually thought it was a manifestation of her own pampered nature.

  Yes, the psychology of being spoiled has made her unable to face any setbacks, only able to sail smoothly, only able to listen to praise, and cannot hear a single word of criticism. When she had a falling out with her classmates, a classmate said to her, "Don't think that just because your parents spoil you, others will too..." This time she felt extremely wronged, and cried non-stop when she got home. If it wasn't for her father stopping her, her mother would have gone to school to argue with that classmate. It's precisely this excessive favoritism that has made her extremely fragile, weak and vulnerable. When she was struggling with poor grades, her mother could only hire one tutor after another for her, but she still had no confidence in herself... Teaching children to bravely face setbacks and failures, letting them understand the principle that "hardship is the cradle of wisdom", is the only way their wings can become stronger and harder through the trials of wind, frost, rain, and snow. Only then will they be able to fly higher and soar further in the future...