Mother-daughter communication

  "Mom, I want to ask you something. What feelings do you still have towards my biological father and his family?" It was a weekend evening, and Kafi was lying on her mother's bed, having a rare close conversation with her mother.

  "How did you suddenly think of asking this?" Her mother looked at her daughter with some surprise.

  "There's nothing, I just suddenly thought of this today and wanted to know your evaluation of my two fathers." These words were also exchanged with her mother in her previous life, but it was already after she had read for her master's degree. By the time she had matured mentally and could guide her mother, leading her to calmly face her marriage, it seemed like it was a bit too late, as her mother at that time no longer had the time or age to pursue what she wanted."

  What about now? Now that we've all grown up, I'm at least 10 years ahead of schedule in asking the same question, and today's mother is absolutely not the mother from back then. Today's mother is far more mature than the one in my memory who was over 40 years old, whether it's in terms of experience or ability. She should be able to face life's ups and downs with equanimity now.

  Lin Tianxiu fell into thought for a moment, thinking of her two ex-husbands she had been with before, thinking of their good qualities and their bad ones, getting caught up in memories of the past.

  "Your biological father, Zhou Mingli, is a very selfish person. He doesn't believe in love and has some personality defects. When he was young, due to the extreme poverty at home, he developed an obsessive pursuit of material things. Also, when he was young, he suffered from other people's discrimination, which made him overly concerned about what others think of him. His suspiciousness is too heavy..."

  His brother Zhou Mingwen is also a selfish person, preferring sons over daughters. His daughter Zhou Yunjing has a pretty good personality, but unfortunately, as a teenage girl, she lacks nutrition and didn't develop well. It's said that at home, all the good food was given to her younger brother first...

  Kafi nodded, all of these were things that happened in the past. Now that everyone had matured and met up again in Chengdu, they chatted about old times. Kafi had heard Big Sister mention this before. But since she had sent money to Big Sister, her life should be much better now than it was back then.

  "Your great aunt He Lingyu is just average, not as selfish as Zhou Ping, slightly better, but lacks vision..."

  "Zhou Ting is ill and cannot take care of He Yan, but He Yan is precocious. However, if it were your biological father and Zhou Mingwen who came to educate her, they would eventually make He Yan rebellious."

  "Zhou Jie is not bad, has good luck, her husband Qin Gang is a very good person, very down-to-earth. I actually had prejudices against her before, thinking she was no good, not a good woman, with too casual private life. It's also because she found this honest man Qin Gang that she's doing okay now."

  Hehe, now that I've seen more of the world, I think her way of doing things isn't necessarily wrong. It's a lifestyle where she gets in touch with different men, figures out who doesn't suit her, and finally finds one that does, then grabs onto him and marries him - it's actually not a bad way to do things."

  "Really?" Kafi smiled at her mother, never expecting her mom's thoughts to change so much.

  "You know, in our time, relationships between men and women were very serious. There was a saying that bad women would eventually marry good men, while many good women would end up with unsatisfactory husbands. But what is a good woman, and what is a bad woman? It's just the perspective of people back then, who thought that women shouldn't have too much contact with men. Generally, when men and women were together, it was through introductions by others. As long as they didn't dislike each other, even if there wasn't any affection, they would still get married. Few women dared to continuously date different men, and those who did were considered unseemly, bad women in the eyes of everyone..." Mom's eyebrows and eyes were filled with a smile as she described the unique marriage phenomenon of that era.

  "What's your view now?"

  "Actually, many people's views are constantly changing. Look at how much our family has changed in just a few years. Six years ago, I absolutely couldn't have imagined that one day I'd be living in the US, watching my daughter and her friends attend world-renowned universities. Do you think my views could still be the same as before?"

  Mom smiled and joked, everything is really like in a dream, these years have changed too fast, so fast that people can't adapt.

  "What about my stepfather Wang Jiye?"

  "He's actually a good person, very good, a good husband and a good father. Isn't he good to you?" With her daughter's affirmative nod, Lin Tianxiu slowly fell into deep thought, reminiscing as she spoke, "Wang Jiye isn't a bad person, perhaps all men have some selfishness. These past few years our family has developed too quickly, so fast that I'm having trouble adapting. Your father is more of a traditional intellectual, better suited to teaching and educating. Business matters are already making him uncomfortable. He's deeply influenced by traditional education, with filial piety as the top virtue. He wouldn't dare go against your grandmother's wishes. His brother Wang Chengye has ulterior motives, and his sister Lili isn't a simple person either, they're all plotting against our family. He's a good person, but he fundamentally doesn't have the ability to maintain this household of ours. If we continue this marriage, it will be hurtful for both parties..."

  "What about him and Xiao Jin?"

  "Actually, after some things passed, I thought it through. Who doesn't make mistakes in this world? If you don't make mistakes, how can you improve? During that time, I was indeed a bit exhausted and didn't have the mood to socialize with his family anymore, and I also cooled down towards some of his behaviors, so at that time I strongly demanded a divorce..."

  "Was it an impulse? Mom, you regretted?" Kafi was still a bit surprised that her mom would regret. At the time, seeing how heartbroken and disappointed she was, leaving seemed like the best option, but now her mom regretted it. Had they made a mistake back then?

  "A person's emotions can't be controlled by reason, now that I've come out and seen more of the world, I've met many excellent men, but there are almost none who truly have feelings." Lin Tianxiu's tone was a bit down.

  "How could this be?" It doesn't make sense, Mom has met so many excellent men who are avid readers.

  Can't even look at one.

  "Kafi, do you know? My thoughts and ideas have been branded with a mark from that era. And after achieving some success, when I go to interact with those people, I always feel a sense of instability. I don't understand their past, I don't understand their family, I don't understand their background. Moreover, it's hard for me to easily trust them. Who can confirm whether they are looking at your money or you as a person? Who can guarantee that their family relationships are not complicated at all? Who can affirm that you will definitely accept them?"

  "Mom, I promise you this: as long as it's someone you like, I'll absolutely accept him, on the condition that he treats you well!" Ka Fei hastily raised his hand to show his determination, and absolutely couldn't let himself become an obstacle to his mother finding a second spring!

  "Hehe, but I don't have much heart to accept other men!"

  "Mom, doesn't that mean you still have feelings for dad?" Does it mean they'll have another chance? Ka Fei pondered her mother's words and after a while, she figured out the implication. It seems mom is the slow-burning, nostalgic type. She said so herself, that she's intelligent and empathetic, but why can't she accept others in terms of emotions? Turns out it's genetic!

  "How to say it? Anyway, I don't have any feelings for other men......" Lin Tianxiu seemed to feel a bit embarrassed talking about these emotions in front of his daughter, and rubbed her hair, "Don't just ask me, what about you and Lance? Even a blind person can see the meaning behind Lance's actions. In the past, I've noticed that those few boys all had a crush on you, but you seemed to never have any reaction. This time you came over, it seems like you've finally come around?"

  The two mother and daughter chattered away, more like close friends than parent and child, sharing their innermost thoughts with each other.

  "Hehe" Ke Fi smiled, "It should be Lan Qi, I have a good feeling about him. When he says the same words as others, it sounds more comfortable. We've been together for so long and are used to living with everyone. If one day he's not in my life, I'll really feel uncomfortable. When he's not around, I occasionally think of him. When other boys give me hints, I always compare them to Lan Qi in secret. I always feel that they either don't have Lan Qi's gentleness, or his handsomeness, or his personality..."

  "Alright, alright, I know. In your eyes, Lan Qi is perfect." Lin Tian Xiu couldn't help but interrupt her daughter's lengthy argument.

  "I'm perfect in his eyes too." Kafi said without modesty.

  "Hmph." Lin Tianxiu suddenly burst out laughing and happily hugged his daughter, "Yes, my daughter is of course perfect, that's how she is in my heart. Alright, listen to the judge's formal announcement, Miss Lin Kaifei, you're in love!"

  "Thank the judge for his verdict, thank CCTV, thank the audience in front of the TV, thank my friends who have always cared about and supported me, thank..." Ke Fei was in a great mood, cracking jokes as he used to.

  "Stop messing around, what's with CCTV?"

  "Oh, nothing, just said casually." I remembered now, CCTV hasn't changed its name yet.

  "But, Ka Fei, Mom doesn't object to you dating, but there are some things that need attention. You..." The mother hesitated and seemed a bit embarrassed.

  "Mom, are you referring to boys and girls?"

  "Do you know?" Lin Tianxiu's face turned red as he looked at his daughter, strangely, it seemed like the roles had been reversed. Why was he the one blushing, while his daughter appeared extremely calm? Lin Tianxiu wondered to himself.

  "Mom, this is America. This kind of knowledge is only hidden and reserved in China, but it's very common here. Of course, 'common' doesn't mean casual, but rather that everyone treats it as a normal thing, not as mysterious as it is back home. I've been reading medical books since I was young, do you think I wouldn't have come across this kind of knowledge? A professor even mentioned in class that to prevent AIDS, people are encouraged to use condoms during ***, and some people even give out condoms as business cards..."

  Kafi remembered when he first met a stranger who handed him a condom as if it were a business card, and solemnly reminded himself.

  "Please use a condom!"

  How embarrassing! How flushed with shame!

  It's okay now, I'm used to it!

  "Uh, uh, you guys..." Lin Tianxiu didn't know what to say.

  "Mom, don't worry, I'm still very conservative, Lance is also a gentleman, we haven't crossed the Rubicon yet!" Kafi hurriedly assured her mother.

  "Oh!" Lin Tianxiu let out a sigh of relief, "Actually, I'm not against you guys..."

  Wait, what am I saying? Am I actually encouraging my daughter and her boyfriend to sleep together? Stop.

  "Cough cough, actually what I mean is, you're all still young and not quite suitable..."

  "Mom, don't worry, I'm studying medicine too, I know that premature *** is bad for the development of both boys and girls."

  "Cough cough, I'm relieved then." Lin Tianxiu was still choked by his daughter's blunt words.

  Alas, how did my daughter become so mature? She's almost 15 years old. What are other 15-year-old girls doing? It seems like they're still at the age of first love and innocence, but why does my own daughter look like she's been through a lot? Talking to her is nothing like talking to a kid, it's scary how mature and rational she is.

  Having been to so many places and seen many precocious kids, but someone like my daughter who has almost the thinking of an adult is still rare. Is my daughter really a genius? Can she understand things that others can only grasp after five years in just five months, making her thinking mature to the point of being frightening?

  Lin Tianxiu was frightened by her daughter's words, and she began to think wildly. Kafi sat beside her, quietly observing her mother's profile, smelling the fragrance of her mother's body after a bath. The feeling of happiness spread, from an early age, she had been communicating with her mother like friends, it can be said with certainty that without her mother's encouragement, heart-to-heart talks and meticulous care, she would not have grown up so healthy, so lively, so natural, almost no one could tell that she came from a divorced family.

  Kafi closed her eyes happily, as long as it was what her mother wanted, she would go and fight for it, as long as she could be happy, that was her greatest comfort!

  I hope this happiness can last a little longer!

  I slept comfortably on my mother's bed and woke up early the next morning. My mom was already up.

  "Mom, Mom, I'm hungry..." Rarely lazy, Ka Fei naturally acted spoiled towards her own mother.

  "Kafi, get up and have breakfast." Mother came over with a cup of warm water in her hand and handed it to Kafi naturally.

  Looking at the steaming porridge and several small dishes in the living room, for some reason, Kafi suddenly had an urge to cry, feeling too happy!

  Memories of past lives flashing in Ka Fei's mind, constantly impacting him. His brain is filled with memories of his mother getting up early every day for 6 years to make breakfast for him during his junior high school and high school years, worrying that the food from small restaurants would affect her daughter's physical development. Every morning, a cup of warm water, a hot water bottle in bed on winter days... everything is so unforgettable, so happy, although ordinary, yet deeply etched in memory...

  "Kafi, Kafi? What are you spacing out for?" Mom looked at her daughter in surprise.

  "It's okay, mom, I just feel so happy being your daughter!" Kafi suddenly hugged her mother and said with deep emotion.

  "You are my daughter, and I am happy!" Lin Tianxiu didn't understand, but still hugged her own daughter and said what was in her heart. Really, this daughter is excellent and considerate, making herself laugh even when she's asleep!

  Mother-daughter communication

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