Section 43 Domestic-related part
I have many friends, but currently only one is a true friend. Actually, having just one good friend is enough to share the secrets of your youth. Of course, among these friends, there are some I don't get along with and some with whom my relationship is ambiguous. I believe that between men and women, there can be feelings that transcend friendship but aren't love.
In elementary school, I had a very close male friend (don't misunderstand, our relationship was 100% platonic). I always thought he was the kind of person I'd been searching for. But when we entered junior high and were in different classes, he suddenly stopped paying attention to me. I was very angry and decided not to pay attention to him either (but deep down, I still cared about him because he really wasn't bad; it's just that being born in this small town made him a bit too proud).
During the Snowy Dance, friends really got along well with each other. I watched and felt envious, and even learned some tricks to deepen our relationships. Actually, we all mutually understood each other; it's just that before then, nothing major had happened, so that kind of "through thick and thin" spirit hadn't been revealed. But those two big events really brought out that spirit and made us realize that we were the people we'd been searching for a long time.
What touches me most in Snow's works is the part related to family. Family, under Snow's pen, is so warm and cozy, a haven that provides comfort whenever you cry or feel sad, a spiritual pillar that never collapses whether you are happy or not. Snow's words, Snow's feelings, make me realize how important and great family and relatives are, touching the unknown emotions in my heart. My mother, unlike Su Mei's mother, doesn't have a reputation, nor is she as noble as Jing's mother, but she is capable, ordinary, generous, beautiful, of course, also has some vanity, some small-minded feminine pride. My mother, unlike Ni Yu's father and mother, isn't despicable or shameless, but he is filial, honest, knowledgeable, capable, of course, also a bit outdated, lacking in emotional expression (my god, I really don't know how he does it, running around the world every year, yet forgetting Valentine's Day, I reminded him repeatedly, and he still didn't know to send flowers). It is such a couple that values my studies, takes care of my life, and worries about my future. With such a warm family, what more can I ask for? Snow, with her simple words, touching stories, truly makes me realize that the relationship between parents and children needs to be maintained with love and tolerance from both sides. I will no longer complain about my parents' outdatedness or vanity, but also learn to accept everything they arrange for me.
Never thought that there would be a person who could make me grow up in such a way, changing so much. But this person - Xue Man, with her forever 16-year-old heart and unchanged smile, gently tells the story of growth, the joy of growing up, the worries of growing up, the moving moments of growing up...
The End
